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Sunday, October 30, 2005
BOS Essay #1 -- Hatered

A new series again. Because-of-Sianess; totally random stuff thats unrelated to anything at all, for my own recreational purposes during this period.

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Roots from dislike or distaste. Dislike, mainly because of ways and qualities that you deem the object in question possessing as errors. Distaste, basically because you label the object as unlikable just because your favour says so.

Since neutrality is a stance most like to don nowadays, hatered has been thought of to be more of an emotion rather than reaction. But hatered works in more of a reaction-nal way, although it has similarity with emotion as it is triggered off by a circumstance. However, both emotions and reactions are largely momentary, while hatered can drag out this essence (time) for a rather long period. Grudges work in such a way whereby one, a constant concept that applies to a stiuation is being excercised consistently every time one meets the object of hatered; two, the object of hatered commits a flaw that is determined by one as beyond acceptance, and one performs hatered in order to justify his emotion/reaction. In such a sense, hatered can be defined as both, only, its not a emotion as it can be willed. Unlike, happiness, sadness and the like which depend solely upon the situation for the emotion to be triggered, hatered can be produced by the oneself and is independent on the situations. Although some may argue those preceeding emotions can also be 'choosen', this action leans more towards a delusion rather than a decesion. Hatered, is very different. The factors it relys on is not soley circumstance. It betrays both its classification as a reaction and an emotion by working beyond time limits (yes, there are the exceptions of everlasting happiness/sadness etc. But hatered is different because it is felt and affirmed rather than just experienced) Lets explore a few factors hatered clings onto...

The D i S l i k e
- Irritations
Errors, flaws, things that irk you and make you feel fed up. There are the generalised actions that everyone is expected to hate like not having manners; the particular actions that there is an unspoken law for people not to carry out like being very arrogant and the actions that are unique only to some like not making eye contact. It may be as simple as a way of doing things that you are not comfortable with.

- Processes and Conclusions
One guy screws up a project by eating up all the ingredients as dinner while all were planning how to cook the big pineapple with what was bought. They find out and all hate him. The conclusion is the signpost where one will induce a current, to burst that fuse. Because its an official indicator of how much the guy sucks, one can assume there is reason to hate.

- Differences
Ah, self explanatory. I could fill up this with crap, but just go figure. Think up the defination. Think up a case study. Think up a person. Think up the situations. So, how do you feel about it?

The D i S t a s t e
- Differences
This time, in terms of the uncontrollable circumstance. The most common example is the place of belonging. There have been discrimation because of race, gender, religion etc. And all these, (some which can be deemed as not the guy's fault) give ample reason for humans to want to hate.

- Ugliness
Not only physical, although the factor may not be wrong when taken literally... but also ugliness that you deem so upon the standard you have. The poor might be a bunch of ugly people for the rich. Those who are from elite schools may be ugly to those from neighbourhood ones. Even the handsome can be ugly for those who are... ugly. Well.

- Gut
"I just cannot stand him" scenarios. Well, maybe we could try rooting out those who we can't seem to determine reason for (and thus classify under this), and try to slowly sieve out our reasons.

There can be plenty of morals of the story. Like going out there and then stop hating everybody, the world and to hug each other and live in harmony. Like looking at your own mistakes first and considering how to improve yourself...
Like stopping to think of whether there was reason to find reason to hate.


"My strength is that I can laugh at myself, Bucky"
"Your weakness is that you don't have a choice!"
"Enough!"
--- Conversation between Bucky and Sacthel(sp?) and the interruption by Robert, Get Fuzzy



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