"Humans achieve complicated emotion patterns over very simple matters."

Was my Msn nick a few weeks ago.
Its probaly an exaggeration, and like any other spawn of life, there's the exceptions and special cases. And well, besides, I'm like 80% of the time mixing around teenagers. So they can't probaly be classified as humans. They are... but in the end, it could just be immaturity. (I don't discount myself off that hook of course.) But as much as the tide comes in, it seemingly seems that its the simple matters that make life suck for us. As psychologists and probaly other people in the world would know, the 'triggering causes' and 'structuring causes' analysis playworks and the way the 'slowly builds up' thing goes. So in the end, it might not be a single button that is pushed, but rather the whole situation altogether. Because seriously, our lives don't happen like movies and story books where they have a main 'problem' that shifs itself slowly into the climax and stuff. Life's not so colouful at the most part. The 'it-all-adds-up' idea is nice, but probaly only just satisfactory to the way we expect life's cards to be dealt.

Because we face life at different angles, we approach everyday with different mindsets and singular problems sometimes won't find themselves a solution after a long time. Stuff can drag along and stay put for awhile. Then come back again. And because the details aren't exactly amazing enough to fit a bestseller, the 'problems' we face turn into pure bite-size bread crumbs. Also, the process won't be as much as a suspenseful one filled with the tackable side-quests at along the road, but rather a totally different segment.

On the simplistic level, there are basically 3 ways upon perciving(for the victim himself, the passer-bys and the studier) distress (as usual, their variables and etc. crap... I've said this, like for almost every blog entry ? Go figure.):

The Hit by Too many things and therefore stressed out
This view is less climaxy and shows a guy running around completing errands and searching for their cheese everywhere in the maze. It tlits slightly towards a 'goal seeking' ambition and consider that the victim suffers but would get there in the end, or fail.

The Many Factors, but ONE main problem
This one agrees that there are many contributing factors, but in the end singles out one individual one that is causing everything. Say you have a problem of not being able to reach school early. You give various reasons like lots of homework, can't get up early etc. but the real and underlying reason is that your parents are quareling every night and you can't get across the point. These people believe in the trigger-effect thing.

The Facade Assumers
These guys think that the distress doesn't affect them and they just go on with life taking it in their stride. Either optimistic or apahtic. In both cases, one can think that they will suddenly 'can't take it' and go jump off a building cause their hiding up all the time, or, that they will evovle into a robotical state and hide themselves behind a wall all the time, feeling emotionless.

And More.
But they don't really matter anyway.

The emotion patterns are fluid and semi-digestable when they come and uneasy and squeezy as they try to flee. It works especially for misuderstandings, irritation and instances when your basically 'pissed-off'. For instance, a guy keeps copying the way you conduct your work and because its seemingly unobvious, you can't do anything. (Lol... yeah, hidden implications here. But no hard feelings anyway. Its not good to respect the pattern.) Ego problems erupt and then tidals of not wanting to 'give in'. The stereotype quarrels, yeah. But other things as well. The stuff that is long-term. The procedures that are lengthy in thought-conflictions and akward in paper jotting. In short, Life.

While playing an online game, I entered this room entitled 'Life Sux'. While in it, another guy entered and gave his comment: "Life doesn't suck. You make life suck."
We choose it for ourselves?

Well. Choice has been a very appealing idea. Its by choice that a 'freedom' is wanted, through 'choice' that a democracy is formed. Its by the concept of choice that the law of human actuality is created. Also, choice measures stablity of our actions and the commitement we would desire/need to pioritise to them. They say a choice can be life-changing. That it can mean a heaven or a hell.

Ever take that literally?

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